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9 Ways Women Sabotage Their Careers

9 Ways Women Sabotage Their Careers

Barbara Reinhold | Monster

Very few people doubt the corporate deck is stacked against women to some degree. Still, you can sabotage your own career through errors made in the name of doing well or doing more.

Here are nine career stoppers that can prevent you from advancing in your career. Do any of them figure into your modus operandi?

1. Flirting with Men to Get Your Way

This is a strategy that also seems to come naturally, and the short-term gains can be heady. It always comes back to haunt you in the end, however. Get promoted on the quality of your ideas, hard work and ability to enable teams to work together. Leave your other moves to the hours outside of work.

2. Taking Care of Others and Forget About Yourself

Even though females are socialized to be caretakers, if you say yes to everything at work, you’ll end up giving it all away and won’t have time left to do the job at hand. You’ll also undermine the efficacy of others on your team.

3. Thinking of Yourself But Not Others

This is the other side of the dichotomy. If you overcorrect and think only of yourself, then you will probably manage autocratically and have a hard time keeping a team working well together. A career is best lived at the point of creative tension between these two pulls.

4. Being Too Busy to Take Care of Your Health

Would a race car driver start a race with low-octane fuel? Every time you start a day with less than the right amount of sleep for you, pump empty calories into your body or let your body waste away a little more for lack of exercise, you’re compromising your ability to think well and work most productively. An internal whistle blows after eight hours of output, telling all your systems to work with less energy and effectiveness. By working too long without recharging your battery, you destroy your ability to do your best work.

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    metot

    about 1 month ago

    470 comments

    Nice article:)

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    elizabethagoldstein

    about 1 month ago

    12 comments

    The article are actual proven facts, most of them have happend to me at one time in my career. I seem to always think you will be rewarded for your good works instead of expressing my interest up front. I have a tendency of doing too much and then over looked at the end. I always take that step forward help out anyone in any department and try to help out the entire organization for the best. Today I only find out that this really doesn't work in today's business world. Seems like ethics and value doesn't go very far in this world. I'm not the type of person who does cover up for co-workers infractions because I always believe that people should come forward and just say heck I made a mistake and suggest how do we fix it? But, seems like no one wants to take responsibility for there actions and blame others.
    I am motivated and I think women need to speak up and make suggestions because executives do listen so it's really time to speak up.

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    kbtordai

    about 1 month ago

    708 comments

    Great article and very useful tips! I know I have been guilty of more than one of these points.

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    MKG

    about 1 month ago

    12 comments

    Great points. "Assuming You'll be Rewarded for a Job Well Done" and "Waiting for Permission" are two key points. The women who do an excellent job and are ready to move up will rarely get the opportunity to unless they express interest. I think women have a tendency to wait to be tapped on the shoulder more than stepping forward and asking.

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    JAMMIE

    about 1 month ago

    6 comments

    A quite quintessential article for we ladies who wanna get a big progress!

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    Mai30

    about 1 month ago

    4 comments

    I will always keep this in mind and be motivated and definitely make this as my career guide, thank you so much for this article..
    More Power to you!!

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    jrod01266

    about 1 month ago

    2 comments

    Now that we know what we are doing wrong, how about tips to avoid these pitfalls. Some are probably self explanatory (stop gossiping), but some tips on how to professionally promote your achievements and how to stop waiting for permission, and present the proposal would be helpful.

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    nancyhudnall

    about 1 month ago

    4 comments

    Excellent article. I appreciate your directness and not beating around the bush. I mistakenly fell victim to many of these practices in my last employment, learning to implement new strategy to succeed.

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    bethanierose

    about 1 month ago

    680 comments

    Well said, Beth!

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    Beth1964

    about 1 month ago

    26 comments

    This makes for a good headline but these things are not specific to women, I bet I can name many men who ahve bought more car than they can afford in less time than I can name any number of women.

    Every year Fortune annouces their list of top influencial women in the world and it would serve us more to focus on what they have done and are doing to be effective and influencial if women truely want to be successful - in which ever way they choose.

    Ladies I have more faith in your ability to do the things which will advance your career rather than sabotage it. It has less to do with gendar and more to do with learning how. Look to the example of those men & women) who have done it.

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