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Competitive Women and Sleep Deprivation
Dianne McDonald | Excelle
October 15, 2008
Picture this: One woman says, "Oh my gosh — I am soooo tired. I only slept six hours last night!‘’ The next woman says, "Six hours? I wish I slept that much — I only slept five, and woke up all through the night.’’ Yet another woman scoffs, "Pfft! I didn’t even sleep a wink last night — I tried and tried, but just couldn’t fall asleep at all.’’ Sound familiar at all?
Women can be competitive in many ways. We strive to prove ourselves on a daily basis. Lately, I have noticed how many ladies actually try to win when it comes to lack of sleep, as if whoever does the most and sleeps the least is somehow the victor.
Because women traditionally put others’ needs ahead of their own, this is a feminist issue. And with this particular issue, women sacrifice sleep, and subsequently, suffer adverse consequences. Over the past few decades, women have assimilated themselves to paid work outside the home, but remain dedicated to the domestic responsibilities.
Over-scheduled women are doing more without additional hours in a day — creating a perfect storm for insomnia.
This self-destructive sleep deprivation competition shows how women demonstrate the stereotypical martyrdom to which females have historically fallen victim.
Lack of sleep should not be a badge of honor for women. Lack of sleep should be a red flag that the woman needs to address an inevitable health risk by altering her schedule to ensure a satisfactory sleep schedule.
“Insufficient sleep has been linked to the development and management of a number of chronic diseases and conditions, including diabetes, cardiovascular disease, obesity, and depression,’’ reports the U.S. Centers for Disease Control.
Take care of yourself. Attempt to resolve your sleep deprivation.
The dark circles under my eyes are more than just bags … they’re a full set of luggage. Women may joke about it, but the potential for chronic health issues is no laughing matter.

ricki
4 months ago
13298 comments
I find I can sleep better when I have less on my mind. When I'm thinking about things going on in my life or worrying about others and their problems, it's harder to sleep and I'm tired through out the next day! This is normal in men and women I believe!
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10 months ago
I find that when I get sleep - my full 8 hours - I am actually more productive and better at being me! Thus I have to do less and can get more sleep!
fatimah
10 months ago
88 comments
A Very True article, we set out to proof ourselves, trying to balance too many things at the same time and in the process we tend to ignore our sleep.
ChrisMar
11 months ago
184 comments
Timely subject especially for busy married professionals like myself...sleep deprivation is a serious issue and those of us who aren't suffering from insomnia have no excuse for tolerating this potentially deadly behavior. I've had my moments of long evenings, but knowing what I know about the negative affects on health and overall functioning I limit long evenings now! Great article Diane.
CarrieEdwards
about 1 year ago
14 comments
As an executive and competitive in nature, I rarely had difficulty sleeping. It was I guess the combination of this and the wonderful experience of having children that ignited my battle with insomnia. I have fought this battle for the last 10 years and continue to search for answers .... yoga, Ambian, hormones? I am certainly not proud of the fact I have trouble sleeping and if we could truly pick our battles this is one I would be would be happy to lose.
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about 1 year ago
terrific insightful article, well done...