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Tame Your Gadgets Before They Take Over Your Life

Tame Your Gadgets Before They Take Over Your Life

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Dr. Sherrie Bourg Carter | Excelle

May 29, 2009

Electronic communication! What did we ever do without it? Well, if you consider the research, the answer is a lot more than we’re doing now!

Much like Pavlov’s dog (a classic psychological experiment) who was taught to salivate at the mere ringing of a bell, every time we humans hear a ding, beep, swoosh, vibration, or whatever obnoxious tone we decide to program into our electronic devices these days, we jump! But unlike Pavlov’s dog, we’re not helpless animals at the mercy of a researcher. We’re actively and eagerly participating in our own classical conditioning! And if you believe the research, it’s wreaking havoc on our already overscheduled and overburdened lives.

Who these days doesn’t use a cell phone, text messaging, a personal computer, email, and instant messaging (to name only a few of the multitude of devices we can choose from to electronically communicate with anyone, anywhere, anytime)? And who hasn’t programmed these devices to alert us in some way, shape, or form the millisecond someone decides to reach out and touch? Can you say no one?

Let’s face it! We’ve become addicted to instant gratification, and a big part of that gratification is being able to reach just about anyone at just about any time, any place, anywhere. What’s so bad about that, you might ask? Well, let’s see.

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    bpaula40

    4 months ago

    94 comments

    Hi dr. Sherrie,
    thanks for such a great article. Luckily for me, because of my situation (I am totally blind) alot of the communication gadgets haven't snared me yet. this isn't to say that there aren't blind people out there in the work force who aren't slaves to the ringers, buzzers and vibrators. I know a few of them personally (blind gadget junkies, i mean). But i haven't allowed myself to get too trapped in the gadget game and that's mostly because it's too difficult (to me) to pull off. the amount of energy i would have to expend in order to get said communication gadget to work with...say...my text to speach screen reader versus the joy of using said communication gadget don't add up for me. also, the cost of some of the devices created for the blind so that we, too, can be electronically "hooked up" are just ridiculous. I like to keep it cheap and simple. I set aside some time (at most three times a day) to read emails. I use a very basic cell phone and service (no text messages, movies, camera, etc) I will, however, have to be available to anser my celly when on the job because i am a Massage Therapist and i have to respond to my clients and potential clients ASAP. so this article just helped to reinforce for me that i'm on the right track with the whole gadget thing. Especially since i am a gadget junkie. I am proud to say i am in recovery.

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    roma

    4 months ago

    10 comments

    Hi Dr. Sherrie! Thanks for adding and viewing my profile. I liked your article a lot, and I admire people who love to write. I'm guilty too. Sometimes, I was thinking of not using cellphone anymore, but I can't. All I can do is to put my gadgets to silent mode. Thank you for writing such a great article like this. I'm sure you did a great job, and you awaken thousands of gadgets user's mind out there. Please continue what you're doing. May God bless you!

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    EmmaM8445

    4 months ago

    4 comments

    I was just waiting for an article like this. Thank you for writing it!

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    brenda2c

    4 months ago

    4 comments

    Great article. I'm guilty. I tried a couple of days to turn my cell phone off so I could work and it didn't work. They called me on the land line. It does take time to get back into the mode of what you were doing and (when you get interrupted again) the cycle continues and it's the end of the day and you have very little to show for it. Some days I just want to throw my cell phone as far as I can.

    My husband and I laugh about our two youngest children. If they can't reach us by one phone they call another phone and then another phone till they make contact. I sometimes wonder what they would do if cell phones did not exist.

    Answering machine were made to use and people will not use them. They call you till you answer the phone and if they can't reach you on one number they call another number. I don't like answering machine but we all need to realize that whoever we are calling my be busy and they will call us back as soon as they are able. If you leave a message.

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    Coach777

    4 months ago

    104 comments

    Its really funny Sherrie... I'm that way with emails!! I am addicted to go see what was written next! And just last week I decided to at least take one day for me, go do something comlpletely different and keep it OFF for the entire day and ya know what? It was so refreshing... thanks for your article, wonderful

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    StormKnight

    5 months ago

    134 comments

    Sherrie: Once again you've done an outstanding job. My friends daughter just did a "story" on headphones and ear damage for her high school paper. It, like your article was fantastic and informative! I did the math and I suppose if I round up I'm guilty of about 400 minutes of interruption. (ha) Texting is my biggest issue. I text waaaay too much.

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    popeteresa

    5 months ago

    12 comments

    thank you for adding me to your list,I AM NEW AT THIS I really don't do that much typing but I shall try, I TOO WOULD LIKE TO WRITE AN BOOK ABOUT MY EXPERIENCE AT MY LAST JOB PERHASE YOU COULD GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. THANK YOU TERESA

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    VanessaAWilliams

    5 months ago

    342 comments

    Thank goodness, I use them when necessary, but can very easily ignore them. Being at the constant beck and call of a machine or device is not my cup of tea.

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    PossibilityCoachTM

    5 months ago

    712 comments

    Thanks for the research info. Focusing is important to do good work. It also gives space to be more creative. I do put the mute on when I am on phone with clients as well when writing articles. It makes a big difference in the quality and performance. Multi-tasking to me is best when doing something like washing dishes and watching television!

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    kerrysnetwork

    5 months ago

    196 comments

    Good points, It's hard enough working out of the home, you are always tempted to continue working, I think gadgets create the same situation for you and it can get out of control.

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    Account Removed

    5 months ago

    Great Article! It works at home too..we tend to let our phone at home go to the answering machine because we mostly use our cells so any evening calls are usually someone trying to sell us something. It takes a few times to get used to, but it is empowering to "choose" whether to answer the phone or not.

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    Account Removed

    5 months ago

    Great article! Good point! I have to admit, I am addicted. Each time I get an e-mail, SMS, IM, whatever I jump to see who wrote me and about what matter. Some discipline wouldn't hurt though. But it is kind of hard these days when staying connected means so much. Sometimes I am afraid that if I do not respond I might loose something important, but it seems I loose something anyway :) .... and time is so precious and can never be brought back.

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    AJaneChambers

    5 months ago

    438 comments

    Sometimes I'm looking for something to take me away from the task/project at hand, so old-fashioned procrastination is also a problem for me - I just have new ways of procrastinating.

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    KeriKSilk

    5 months ago

    10 comments

    Too true for comfort!! I'll try and follow the advice but it's the curiosity that gets me. Maybe I need a support group for the gadget addicted!

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