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What question do you dread at job interviews?

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Why should we hire you?


Now really this question gets under my skin. After you sit and answer all the other questions that equsl to this one. Does it really make sense? I want to say  "I need this job" But we all know that answer sounds desperate. What would your answer be?


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What would you bring to this company? 


This question is so vague.  They should hire you because you will work hard and....    (just put them first)


I keep telling people the wrong answer; when they ask me how I am, I tell them that I am unemployed!   

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Leslieleigh says ...



This question is so vague.  They should hire you because you will work hard and....    (just put them first)


I keep telling people the wrong answer; when they ask me how I am, I tell them that I am unemployed!   



Thats the generic answer everyone os looking for no one wants to hear the truth. It is like asking "Why am I doing this interview?"


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Tell us about yourself?


A must have question in all interviews....

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I hate that one too. I used to ask them, "Well, would would you like to know?" even though "experts" say never to ask this. You don't want to talk about your personal background, where you grew up, ethnicity-related issues or anything that may get you disqualified. The problem is you don't know WHAT will or will not get you disqualified at the interview. Tell us about yourself is meant to get you to open up and talk about your achievements or other such qualities. It's better to answer with a direct answer like "I managed 2 annual financial audits between 2002-2004". "I enjoy project management because it allows me to .........." That's how I used to handle this.

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I was asked by the owner (an older man) the following inappropriate and, I believe, illegal questions...



  • Do you have kids?

  • Are they in daycare or...?

  • Are you married?

  • Will you and your family be able to handle the hours?


Those should've been my red flags, but the pay was good, it was closer to home, new experience...Worst place I have EVER worked in! I'm am so happy where I'm at now!!

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One of my friends, who obviously isn't well-informed and socially conscious,  advised me to just answer these "illegal" questions instead of getting defensive or upset  "if you want the job". My response to her was, "Well, if the interviewer asks these illegal questions - then I definitely don't want THIS job. Furthermore, I always look at it this way - they are evaluating me and I am also evaluating THEM. If someone has the nerve to ask this at an interview, then what will they have the nerve to ask or worse, do after they hire me? The answer is I don't want to find out.

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Verdaria says ...



One of my friends, who obviously isn't well-informed and socially conscious,  advised me to just answer these "illegal" questions instead of getting defensive or upset  "if you want the job". My response to her was, "Well, if the interviewer asks these illegal questions - then I definitely don't want THIS job. Furthermore, I always look at it this way - they are evaluating me and I am also evaluating THEM. If someone has the nerve to ask this at an interview, then what will they have the nerve to ask or worse, do after they hire me? The answer is I don't want to find out.



So true, but when the offer seems good, you're young, and it's something like Customer Service, you're not so sure about the red flags...I know now, and I know enough to warn my kiddos and others when it comes to interviews...

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I was asked by the owner (an older man) the following inappropriate and, I believe, illegal questions...



  • Do you have kids?

  • Are they in daycare or...?

  • Are you married?

  • Will you and your family be able to handle the hours?


Those should've been my red flags, but the pay was good, it was closer to home, new experience...Worst place I have EVER worked in! I'm am so happy where I'm at now!!



Unbelievable! What year is it? I am sick and tired of this mind set of being, well... tired!


Jodie Peruski, CMA, Owner of Charmed Essentials, LLC

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I had a job interview in a CPA Manhattan office last fall of 2008. He asked me my age. I politely asked him how that was related to my qualifications and to the job he was trying to fill. His response was that he was "looking for someone mature" - my resume says graduation date of 1995 - so I am clearly in my late 30s, right? Is that mature enough or do I need to be retired to identify with his clientel? Of course the interview went downhill following that age question. I never heard from  him again and I was actually glad. He made me feel extremely uncomfortable - BUT I WENT HOME LAUGHING. BECAUSE HE IS THE ONE WITH THE ISSUES, NOT ME. Someone please tell me, what exactly was the point of asking that question? I went home thinking ,"He's clearly a weirdo." Good riddance. :)

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I had a job interview in a CPA Manhattan office last fall of 2008. He asked me my age. I politely asked him how that was related to my qualifications and to the job he was trying to fill. His response was that he was "looking for someone mature" - my resume says graduation date of 1995 - so I am clearly in my late 30s, right? Is that mature enough or do I need to be retired to identify with his clientel? Of course the interview went downhill following that age question. I never heard from  him again and I was actually glad. He made me feel extremely uncomfortable - BUT I WENT HOME LAUGHING. BECAUSE HE IS THE ONE WITH THE ISSUES, NOT ME. Someone please tell me, what exactly was the point of asking that question? I went home thinking ,"He's clearly a weirdo." Good riddance. :)



If being in your 30's is not mature, then what is? Why would that question be relevant? I have no idea either. No matter how you rationalize it, it really comes down to the fact that it is just not relevant - EVER!


Jodie Peruski, CMA, Owner of Charmed Essentials, LLC

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I was advised on another site to remove my graduation date but I feel it looks even more suspicious as it now prompts them to ask you the question. You are drawing their attention to the "age issue". Here's my viewpoint: some places don't feel comfortable asking about marriage, kids and daycare but the age question is more acceptable to them. You can find out someone's age from their resume, graduation date, and work experience. I'm leading some more here so stay with me: they assume that most women in their 30s (and over) probably have kids, daycare issues, etc. Since they're afraid to ask about that here in Manhattan, New York, they prompt about age. New York City is very litigious - lawyers are a dime a dozen - so some people find ways of poking at sensitive issues "between the lines." And no, I am NOT removing my graduation date. :)

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I was advised on another site to remove my graduation date but I feel it looks even more suspicious as it now prompts them to ask you the question. You are drawing their attention to the "age issue". Here's my viewpoint: some places don't feel comfortable asking about marriage, kids and daycare but the age question is more acceptable to them. You can find out someone's age from their resume, graduation date, and work experience. I'm leading some more here so stay with me: they assume that most women in their 30s (and over) probably have kids, daycare issues, etc. Since they're afraid to ask about that here in Manhattan, New York, they prompt about age. New York City is very litigious - lawyers are a dime a dozen - so some people find ways of poking at sensitive issues "between the lines." And no, I am NOT removing my graduation date. :)



Good for you! You know, I sometimes feel we live in well, a backwards nation. In our society, there are many people who believe that if you do not work constantly, have perfect attendance, and basically put your work before your life. These are the same people who push for family values, however it is not acceptable to put family before work? To put work first, life second? What is the point of working or having a career if you are unavailable to live it or enjoy it! Granted some people love their work or career very much but that should not be your whole life.


Jodie Peruski, CMA, Owner of Charmed Essentials, LLC

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This is a form of corporate brainwashing.Now feminism is an excuse to expoit people and make women work longer hours than men. There's nothing wrong with not having kids or working longer hours, IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT. But someone has to raise the kids and we know most men just aren't there for that. Quality of life is an important issue and if asked why you left this job or that, there's nothing wrong with saying, "the very difficult schedule made it impossible to have a quality of life." You can't take money to the grave with  you. This world is full of many, many different kinds of people. Not every employer wants a brainwashed  "wage slave" . The medium and smaller companies are a lot more family-oriented and humanistic.

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Verdaria says ...



The medium and smaller companies are a lot more family-oriented and humanistic.



Not necessarily. The company I mentioned above was a small franchise...Seems to me they weren't as accountable, so they got away with as much as they could without anyone noticing. It's not the size of the company, all depends on the precendent and goals set by the owner and managers. If they want happy, reliable employers, they will treat them with respect, train them well, and appreciate them.

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The question I dread the most is "Why are you the best candidate for this position?"  Gee, do you think it could be that I want to work or that I'm looking for personal and professional growth?!  I don't think I've ever gotten a job based on my response to that question.  It's a filler for an interviewer who can't think of anything else to say or is looking for that special pavlovian buzz word.  Let's play word search with the resume!


The absolute worst question I have ever been asked was whether my monthly period would affect my ability to do the job properly.  Ah, political correctness at its finest!  I also had a banker interview my chest - he never once made eye contact with me during the hour long interview (no cleavage was visible).  Of course, it wasn't his fault he was short...and short sighted!


I don't know if feminism is an excuse to make women work longer hours than men but I do know that if one is single, or married without children, more hours are expected since the perception is that individual doesn't have "the added responsibility of a family life" and should make sacrifices so that others can spend that quality time with their respective families. It becomes a bit irritating when one misses family reunions, holiday celebrations, time with nephews and nieces, weddings, funerals and other milestones in one's life because of the pressure to cover someone else whose "need" is "greater". 


 

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Here is some good advice I found on how to answer/deal with  illegal interview questions:


http://www.jobweb.com/interviews.aspx?id=1343


I found it rather helpful. The important thing is to remain calm and focused, as hard as that may seem.

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I raised my hand to ask a question about pay structure for a sales position. Question was posed within a group interview and his answer to my question was a question:


"Is that all you're worried about?"


Here I am, unemployed with a family to feed. I want to know how my pay is determined (I am sure everyone in the room was curious, too). 


Should I have waited until the end of the info-group interview to ask? or how should I have answered his question?


 Aren't we all worried about how we are to feed our family?

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Sales is typically on commission only or draw plus commission (which is commission against draw). This is one occupation where there is alot of misrepresentation going on regarding income. There really is no "salary" in the traditional "9-5" way. But the fact that nobody is discussing it should be a red flag to you. I would move on to other job opportunities. In this recession, sales is really not doing well right now.

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"What are your strenghs?" "What are some opportunities for growth?"


I hate these two questions and they usually come up and half way or beyond in the interview. Luckily, I narrowed mine down to a couple of each and keep them in file, should I need them. To me these have always been difficult questions, albeit important ones to answer honestly as possible.

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Why should we hire you


What are your strengths


What would you bring to this company


The answer to these questions determine whether you get a positive response or negative response after that interview. What they want to know is how you will add value to the team, company, department or organization. Yes you want and need a job but they need help getting a job done that will help keep the business going. With the number of job seekers available to companies now it is critical that you be able to answer these questions when asked. What is unique about you that would make us want to hire you over the first 20 candidates we have interviewed this week - that is what they are asking. Look at it this way, you know you better than anyone and if you can not tell them why you should be hired why would they know. You can not put everything about your self on a resume and to a trained interviewer your answer to this questions speaks a lot about the type of coworker and employee you will be.


It is crucial that you be able to answer these questions in such a competitive market of employment seekers. There is abook called Marketing Yourself which helps answer this and many other interview questions (I found this very useful). What Color Is Your Parachute is another used by job seekers and even helps you identify jobs you may be most suited for. Titles which may help answer those question but are not specific to employment search and interviews are The Brand Called You (not positive on title) and if you happen to be an Oprah fan and know Stedman he has a title Build Your Own Life Brand.


I have interviewed potential employees after they have been screened by human resource personnel, and I still interview freelancers.

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I dread the "What is your weakness?" question? Who wants to discuss their weakness and make themselves sound weak ? I know you are supposed to answer with a weakness and follow up with how it has become a strength but then its really not a weakness right ? I can't say I've had any of the illegal questions asked but I agree that if they are asking way inappropriate questions, you probably don't want to work for them.

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Would it be rude and disrespectful if you answered, "Presently, I do not have the answer.  When the time does come, I will inform you as soon as possible."


How can any woman or man give any answers to the above?  We are sure of the present and we know what we need to do tomorrow, but the future is completely unsure of.  Of course, we have our dreams and our goals.  We also know that it could change, whether for good or bad.


Here's my scenerio:


"Do you have kids?"  No.


"Will you have kids?"  I am sorry that is a private answer.


"Are you married?"  At this time, no.


"Are you in a relationship?"  Yes, I am.


"Is this person a "he" or "she"?"  (Now it is getting too personal.)  Because we as human beings need to respect other individuals' privacy. 


What if you are in a same sex relationship or marriage.  Is it really their business to know your personal and private information where you do not share it with a compete stranger?  What if you are married to someone who does not share the same religion as you...would that be brought up in the interview?


 


There are some things, okay many things that each of us would need to know...whether to reveal private answers or simply say, "I feel this is validating my rights."  It is no one's business, but your own.


 


Perhaps I was going off-track, but there are some weird questions and you are in such disbelief that the interviewer has the nerve to bring up such a question.


thank you

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If you were an animal, what would you be and why?


 

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Hmm, it is between a tiger and a snake!  No dog or cat...or hamster... I do not want to be on a "wheel" all my life.

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 Where are you from?  


I've noticed a lot of places try to figure out what race I am by asking me that question.  They get really pissed when I just say Maryland.


Why do you want this job?


Ummm, I need money? Duh!


Where do you see yourself in 5 years?


Why were you fired?


No one ever believes that you have been fired for something that is unrelated to work and unbelievably racist.


How would you handle a customer/client with a complaint?


I am not yet aware of company policy, so how should I know? What are they complaining about? Is it through email, over the phone, face to face, what?  I can't stand vague questions.


 


 

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Yes that questions is crazy.  I often wonder if they sit in a room and decided which questions will drive applicants nut.  By the time you leave the interview you wonder how you really did.

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"What are your strengths?"


I'm a recent graduate, so according to you and pretty much every other job out there, I have none


 


"what do you see yourself doing in 5 years?"


do I look like a fortune teller?


 


 

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So many interview questions are pointless -- from my perspective, they often point to laziness on the part of the interviewer. They haven't really given your resume a good look so instead of asking pointed questions about your experience, they ask very general, cliche questions. The trick is to take these silly quesitons and use them as an opportunity to really showcase your experience/strengths. Even if their quesitons are vague, your answers don't have to be!


I wrote this article about how to answer some of the hardest interview questions:


http://excelle.monster.com/benefits/articles/3388-15-toughest-inter...

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 I hate being asked for a writing sample or to perform an editing test if the interviewer hasn't bothered to review my portfolio. I always to make sure to read up on the company prior to the interview, but when an interviewer hasn't prepared for the interview it's frustrating.

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