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Posted 27 days ago

 

 Hello, 


 Sadly, but it is so true, when a couple divorced, woman become poor and guy are wealthier! It is so hard to start again a new life while being totally alone! That is a fact, that I am like many others a foreigner, it’s bring other issue...your options are very limited! 


Here is you got to many problems and questions... where to find a roof over your head, should I go back to school in my late 30's, how to find a new job that can support your life style or at least let you live a humanly life.


And yes, I was living a good life financially, considering that now I hardly can support myself.


I am working so hard, but the result is the same. Should I do something different and what is it?


I am willing to work hard and open my business if any new idea came cross… But once again, you need a partner.


It’s like having 2 hands is better than one. 


Thanks for reading...ideas, thoughts? 


 Lilia...

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Rated: +1 | Posted 26 days ago

 

Not to pry but are you not going for alimony? support of any kind ? Did you stay home or did you work. It sounds like you stayed home and lived a good life. If so, you are entitled t continue living that good life. Your husband would have to pay alimony for a few years. This would help you get on your feet. Do you have kids ?


I would only go back to school right now if you can afford it. Because in the end its another bill you will have to pay and if you can't afford rent for an apartment then you really can't afford school. Look at all your options, like grants, government loans, financial aid before you make that leap. Alot of people get divorced and survive, trust me over time things will get better. We are here if you need us !